The world of dating is fraught with obstacles to dodge and hoops to jump through. This is true for anyone. I would argue, however, that homosexual men make it considerably more difficult for themselves. Not only are there superficial strangers and dashed expectations to face, but if you have even the most modest hope of finding commitment you may find that you are one of a very select group within an already small minority. But fear not! We are a strong bunch. You are in good company.